I like that T always incourages me to say what is going on in the moment and that if i am angry at her, to tell her, because she may not know. We find that I base my actions upon assumed things and they may not be true - so to talk about them keeps us on the same page.
She also sends things with me from her office when she leaves town - generally a crystal that means a lot to her, and a stuffed animal (armadillo Beanie) that has been named Benedict =) that she has had me keep with me for several months now. And she read a book on tape for me, given me CDs of Belleruth Naperstak... my brain just abruptly stopped, so that's all for now. kiya