my t lives the next town over from me but we shop in alot of the same stores. i've never seen her in any of them but honestly i do try and shop when i know she's working...i figure the woman needs her privacy.

she did see me once...i drive a large bright, distinctive (okay..ugly) van and i was waiting to make a turn onto another street...she was on that street waiting to make a turn onto my street...i didn't notice her at all...the next session she said i saw you...i only said..."geez i hoped i wasn't doing something stupid like singing at the top of my lungs or cursing at you!"

she helped me find a gym to join and even suggested i look at hers. i found one which is cheaper but between the grocery store and her gym (like 3 minutes between all 3...ah suburbia) ...i told her i wouldn't have joined her gym anyway because i valued her privacy. we talked about that and she said she knew i wouldn't disturb her and such....but then i told her the REAL reason...that i would feal she would be stalking ME...following me around watching me work out mouth all agape at my prowess in the gym (okay i'm short, fat nand haven't been to the gym in a million years...).

i'd like to think i would have a conversation with her and not run screaming all panicked from wherever if i saw her someplace. truth is..don't know...hasn't happened yet...unless of course i resort to my old standby...her stalking me.