Tao, I don't have all the answers you want, I wish I did.
Just... there are more choices than you're seeing. I mean, you COULD take time off... though i'm not sure that's best. You have a T, talk with him/her about what might help.

Is there a different way you can go to school? Is there a friend you can confide in? You always have us of course.

the incompletes - the school work - so much crap. But please, one thing at a time. Nothing is hopeless... but you really need help now, is there any way you can call your T early?