((((((((((((((((((((((Miss C)))))))))))))))))))))))))

I know you are good at telling T how you feel...I hope you will go tomorrow and just lay it out there-tell him everything you are telling us.

Ask him to honestly look at himself to see if he has a role in this. There are two people there, and generally when feelings like this are happening, I would say BOTH people are playing SOME kind of role in what is going on.

It almost feels like you need to step back and "start over"...establishing him, and the room, as safe. I've had to do that...and then we were able to regroup and keep moving forward...

Thinking of you. PM me later so we can chat, okay??