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Jan 04, 2009, 06:20 PM
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Sometimes it's not that deep. I think Miss is feeling unsafe in the office because aspects of the relationship have been wavering. Sure, these feelings are driven by things that have happened in past relationships, but I think it is less of a projection and more of a real fear. There has been some inconsistency on the T's part.
Miss, can you think of the last time you felt safe and GORGEOUS  in T's office? Even if it was just a moment. I think it's important to realize that those moments/sessions existed-- even when things change, when it shifts and we begin to feel unsafe in the relationship... sometimes it helps to know that feelings other than that do exist, and they are real. Sometimes it is not so much a change, but it is a shift in the dynamic that can be worked through.
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