oh boy. thank you. i'm all confused again .

i guess... part of me is scared about knowing people now who have BPD. i am scared that they might hurt me, or that they might be 'more likely' to hurt me than a non-BPD person.

i guess the other issue is whether, even with his disorder, if he was responsible or not. or if it was just the disorder.

i'm confused. not very coherent. think that's as far as my little brain is willing to take me today .

thank you for posting, slmg.