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Originally Posted by deliquesce
i think there are two issues here.
one is that you need your money back.
the other is that you are still contacting him thinking that you can still be friends.
decide which one is more important to you, and stick to it.
if you want your money back - contact him regarding only that.
if you want to be friends - then understand that he *might* (errrr.... i doubt it) be going through a hard time, and need some space. or something.
who cares if he thinks you are stalking him? seriously. just get your money back from this guy and cut your losses. the only reason you would care is if you valued his opinion, and i don't think he's shown himself to be someone you should really respect in that regard.
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thank you. this time im going to take that advice. i get advice and everyone says something different and i always go the wrong way!
Yeah i want my money back. thats it. i was trying to catch up with him to explain stuff but maybe theres no real point...he says he cares, but dont show it.
thanks. i didn't think it was stalking. i dont call him on the phone. i dont go to his house. i dont go to his work. its like text messages.We both go on an internet site that has a chat feature. soon as i go on he goes offline. or hides. I dont know why. even if we are both on i dont send him any messages to chat. . . . . . if he wanted nothing to do with me, why ask to borrow money.
i will just contact him re the money. wait a week and then send a text.
Would there be anything i can say to make him realise that i took this MASSIVE leap of faith in him, ive trusted him and he is not acting the least bit grateful or appreaicative of it?