oh sweety - i forgot to give you a hug .

i just read over my post and it sounds so harsh and bossy . i just wanna look out for you and make sure he doesn't take advantage of you, yknow? maybe... a better idea would be...

get your money back (first) and then afterwards, see if he is still interested in an explanation? if he really does care, he will want to hear it. if he is just being a jerk, then at least you got your money back.