Im with you on that one. Online dating is depressing. Ive tried it. I started in October. The last 2 months have been hell. My mistake was that i choose the first guy. Im tall, and he was really tall - the odds of that happening were so silm, he was cute and made me laugh and i didn't keep looking. He turned out to be a jerk. I believed everything he said.

There are probably genuine people out there... im seeing someone else now from the dating website but not counting on anything this time. Theres no exclusiveness - they still go on their and chat up the girls. To me the point is, pick one, see if its anything, if no, then go back... why have 5+ on the go!

Do you have to pay for yahoo personalls? if no, maybe try one that you have to pay for... if someone likes the look of your profile they will pay to contact you. i didn't think it at the time, but i do now, they seem just a bit more legite if they have to fork out cash to email you.

ive been hurt. the first guy i went with, he ended up being my first everything, i tottally regret it. he wasn't the man i thougth he was. its killing me, but i know there is someone out there for me, who will treat me right. there is someone out there for you too. i know its hard to believe it sometimes. i have my ups and downs. right now im wishing i never met this one, but if i never met him i would never know what i know. i have my mometns of clarity! lol. it disapears sometimes tho!

big hug for you!!