I am so tempted to just do this evaluation thing with a poker face and with a quiet typed response. You are right, the risk is high. That said, I am also considering showing them, not telling them where it is at for me. And then they will see me as unfit. S h i t I am more fit and able to connect more effectively than many others I work with. I don't know what will happen. i just know that being human and sharing feelings with those who have power over you is very scarey.