is it normal for her to want to have face to face closure with her ex? is it normal she wants to see him? is it normal she emails him every now and then?

She swares she loves me and is in love with me. remember loving someone and being in love are two different things. She swares she has both for me.

Advice?

Should i stop the contact between them, the emails, the wanting to have face to face closure?

???