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Old Jan 06, 2009, 10:15 AM
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Originally Posted by gimmeice View Post
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I don't think that you were wrong to expect your friend to be there for you, it sounds like a very poor reaction from her. It may be time to analyze your friendship with this person. Have you ever expressed any problems that you are having to her? If so how did she react to that? Is this a friendship in which she only depends on you to listen to her problems and she don't want you to share problems?
Some other things to consider is if she has any experience with depression?
It just sounds like something that needs some thought on your part, friendship is give and take and being there for each other.
I am sorry that she reacted the way she did, we are all here for you.
yes, i have talked to her before about similar things, her reaction has always been, your strong you will get thru this, you always have! thats the point i was trying to make to her, some people have a limit of what they can handle and i have reached mine. your right about needing to analyze my friendship with her. she has never experienced depression,she has had some sad times which i was there for her, but at the same time i feel maybe i shouldnt expect much from someone who has no idea how this feels. i dont know, i have always had to rely on myself thru everything maybe i need to keep it that way. thank you for listening