I understand that concept but it doesn't stop the love I still have for that other person or the frustration that I wasn't given the opportunity to explain myself and the other person saw things incorrectly regardless of how sure they were.

I don't know why letting go of someone you love very much seems so much easier for other people than it does for me. I still love these people. This thread is so painful for me. Not so much the thread itself, but the thinking back of all the failed relationships and all those people that I still love VERY much that I've lost. Again, I'm crying for those losses.