Of course you have a right to your hurt feelings. I'm sorry there's been some misunderstandings in this thread, but I hope folks can forgive (as those who had the misunderstandings have already done), and move on.

AG, great topic of discussion... closure's such a difficult thing to obtain sometimes in relationships, especially ones where closure has been forced upon you. It has for me, sometimes, too, and it's something that isn't simple to deal with. But the fact is, you do have to find a way to find the closure and put the person out of your life. I'm not sure I have much to offer in this respect, but it is something I've had to grapple with as well....

DocJohn