Hi Raynaadi,
I know the feeling of being with someone who isn't inimate. It hurts, I don't understand it either. But I do know if a man tell you that sex is not on his list of priorities and he's giving you a long list of things that are you've got to decide if it's worth staying with someone who isn't able to give you everything thing you want and need. Sex isn't a big deal for some people but it is for others. His priorities may never shift back to sex. If the rest of the relationship is good than it will probably be a difficult decision but take him at his word. Sex is not a priority for him.

~Christy

By the way, I like the name raynaadi (randy) meaning horny!! LOL! Best of luck to you!