i'm a 17 year old girl and i think i'm in love with my bestfriend who is also a girl. i don't know what to do considering i don't want to ruin our friendship. i know she doesn't feel the same way about me but i always want to be around her, and i miss her when we don't talk for even the shortest time. i constantly need attention from her and i don't want to become clingy. it's getting worse over time and i'm so confused and i just don't know what i can do.