A day of space is nothing to be worried about. Everyone needs those from time to time. I'm a girl, and I also like to spend some time with my mother, to do something together or just have a cup of coffee and talk. And I don't want my boyfriend to be there, because it's different when someone else is with us.

The ex boyfriend thing... I don't know. I have two of ex boyfriends that I email and meet once in a while. The first one, he left me on my birthday (cheated and all other stuff) and wanted to get back to me after a year. I like to hear how sad he is, that his job sucks, his new girlfriend is a b*** and so on. He hurt me really badly and I'm still angry at him, that’s all.

The second one... we are very good friends. If he wanted us to be together again, I would definitely think about it. I still have some feelings for him. It’s not love, attachment maybe. Would I go back? I guess not. It’s over. I like him, I care about him, but things change. I love my current boyfriend. The moral of this story: if she says she loves you and most important if she acts like she loves you, I guess everything will be ok. Just make sure she doesn't see the guy too often. Once every 2 or 3 months is normal i guess, but she starts seeing him every week or emailing every week, you should get worried.