Hi Bob,
I just joined PC and was reading your thread and wondering how you were doing now?

If you are still having problems I have a very easy suggestion for ya. The next time you are out and about some place where there are a lot of people your age just walk around making eye contact with any girl who isn't with her boyfriend and smile. You don't have to stop anyone and talk just walk around and make eye contact and smile. Do this a couple of times and eventually it will become second nature then you can move on to the next step.

Honestly, if I were interested in a guy and he walked up to me but didn't really know what to say it wouldn't matter, we could talk about the weather, football or anything just to break the ice.

Good luck, Bob

~Christy