Hi Madisgram
Thanks for your thoughts. You're right about the romancing a better time. Her therapist is helping her and has done a lot for her. I've told my wife how I feel about things, but I haven't told her about how I have been thinking about this other woman. I don't like to burden my wife with my worries because sometimes it's adding too much stress to her plate and that is counterproductive to her own success.
I really appreciate your input.