Trust me, I anderstand! I am that same husband. I have drove my wife CRAZY! Trust me, it is not our fault! Hang in there for him. He needs you! Getting the medication is only HALF the solution. It is a way of life change he will need to go through, and MOST important, he must want to change. It was more than 50% of my cure just to know that I had it and I am not crazy or lazy. Another 30% is the medication, and the last 20% is the ability to understand what you have and want to change! This is my theroy only. My life is so much different now only after 3 months of treatment and realization. Best of luck!