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Jan 08, 2009, 05:28 AM
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Member Since: Jul 2007
Location: UK
Posts: 587
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Originally Posted by sittingatwatersedge
Careful here Sunny.... you know it takes as long as it takes.....
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.......but this is a point, peaches, could you be addicted here?
....... I mean like the 'betrayal bond', wich has a ferocious energy. Because its like resurrecting the past trauma, and it goes:
'if only I could turn this one round, then I would have resolved the original, there would at least be reparation'.
And with a T. its even more intense, because you've got all the original stuff up and running.
And I think its right to want to resolve, its not wrong. Its only its the principles where the healing has to be rather than the specifics.
What are the principles, or dynamics in opperation here, do you think?
check out this quote:
"Where the mother’s libidinal investment is insufficient, that is, where there is neglect abuse, trauma, chronic misatunement, or persistent emotional pressure on a child to submit to a relational bargain primarily designed to serve the mother’s psychological needs as opposed to the child’s, a Disorder of the self will result what will manifest itself as a s stable diagnostic entity with............ " , a Therapists guide to the Personality Disorders, Masterson and Leiberman.
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