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Originally Posted by skymonk
I'm not one for personal ads-it's too easy for people to lie&cheat. Remember all the stories you hear about women finding out that their hubbies are having online "affairs." I know it's hard to network especially if you're no longer in high school or college. I do believe we all have someone out there that we're meant to be with-it's just REALLY HARD to find them. Take it slow-nothing good happens instantaneously or in a very short period of time. Watch out for yourself if you meet anyone personally&listen to your gut feelings when contacting anyone. Your gut instinct is your best BS detector&usually puts up lots of red flags-you just have to pay attention to them. Good luck&don't let anyone burn you-you deserve better. 
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That is VERY good advice from skymonk. Dont ignore those!!!! I did. Foolish me!
If you gut says something is wrong, then theres a pretty good chance. Go with it, not your heart.
If there is a red flag, or something doesn't add up - DONT ignore it, or make up excuses for them, or give them the benefit of the doubt. Either confront them or just remember it. Dont forget it!