to everyone, the ex lives in another state about 1700 miles away from me. She doesnt email him everyday or call him everyday. She will have the closure whenever he comes again into town. Now, I did ask her if she wanted me to tag along and she said NO because she said she needs closure of things that happened between them that does not concern me. Its hard but I guess I need to trust her no matter what. I have tried putting ultimatums to her but every time i try it just pressures her and she blows on me.

I guess the only thing I can do is let it go by and If i get taken for a ride then thats my luck. I have no way of knowing or finding out unless I spy and I am not going to do that it gets you sick.

they broke up last year on june i guess.