Being disapointed often brings the "I don't care" in us, for ourself that is. Sometime there is too much negative one after another. The main thing is to keep trying, maybe in a different direction.

I use that "word" often. It didn't crossed my mind that it could hurt someone or trigger something in them. So my apologies Wants2Fly and Fayerody. If there is anybody else who doesn't want me to use that "word" with them, please let me know. I would appreciate to know rather then hurt.

I hope you are feeling a bit better Wants2Fly!
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