i think that my negative vibes started because i'm really petite and for some reason, men sorta try to pat me on the head, while calling me "sweetie" or someting else intimate...when i bought and sold feeder steers, there was a lot of that going on at the auctions and i always tried to unload a few head on some of those guys. it's okay that you've called me that.....but i'm more comfortable with pat.........xoxoxo