It is hard to want things to be the way we feel best about them...

But that means controlling people,,,and that is just not possible.

There are so many people in my life that I love,,that I see how their lives could be better...I am foolish to think that I can intercede...

When we Love someone,,the greatest gift we can give is to Love without expectation. That does not mean we become their doormat..it means that we be the very best we can,,,and if it is not enough,,,for whatever reason...we Love them enough to let them go...

They may be back...

We are not meant to be controlled,,,but to control ourselves...

If she wants him more than you,,,you will know,,and trying to change her would be like holding a bee in a closed hand...

With Care,

Lenny