Hi Amy,
I'm a new member to this website. I have registered to post a thread and get some advise as i'm in a physically abusive relationship. I read your post, and I totally agree with you, as the person whom I loved the most in this world started abusing me physically. But, I have also read the replies to your posts by some women who have wonderful men in their lives. Well, it's the matter of luck or fate. I also believe that men are very very childish until atleast the age of 45 - 50!!! My husband is 34 but he behaves very irrational and he can not control his anger. He calms down only after taking out all of his frustrations by beating me. I'm married to this person for 11 months and i'm not too excited to celebrate our 1st aniversary. I feel like I have sufferred and lived with this guy for like 100 years and I lost myself down the line!
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Originally Posted by AmynAz
Ok at the age of 39 I have come to the conclusion that there is
not any men who really want to or are capable of having
the type of relationship with women that women want. I married my
high school sweetheart half way through college and divorced
him at age 32. We broke up a few times before marriage and
so I dated other guys then - and after we split up I only dated
the guy I am still with. But while being with my ex and now current
boyfriend I have had the opportunity to "hang out" with lots
of single guys and married ones too. From all my experiences I
believe that until men are over the age of 70 they are really
incapable of being completely faithful, committed and "in love"
with anyone - with the few exceptions that can do this only for a
limited time. (no more than 4 years) I assume that I am attractive
to men as they have always payed a significant amount of attention
to me everywhere I go . Although this is flattering at times , amusing
and a plus in certain situations - I find it annoying and sad mostly.
I know that most of them are married or committed - although they
would gladly do whatever I asked them to - should I. So this only
affirms my belief that they arent capable of not thinking with their
genitals always not their hearts or brains - or any sense of loyalty to
anything other than their - you know. So I am now thinking should
my latest relationship end I will not be looking for a male to take up
most of my time with - instead I will only see them for entertainment
purposes. So I am wondering if other women feel this way too ?? Are
men worth all the love, time and consideration that many women give them
when they are so consumed by their - you knows and inept emotionally ??
Amy
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