FJRPC, sorry about you losing your job--thats a tough thing to deal with. I don't really have any expertise in this area--I am a woman and I have never had to deal with too much sexual harassment and when I was faced with it I just told the guy to take a flying ###$.

I am probably more liberal than a lot of women are about sexual comments and such. Heck, I like guys who express themselves about sex as long as they don't let it interfere with our working relationship.

It sounds like you are dealing with this in a good way--you have pretty good insight about yourself and your thoughts and actions. I hope you are able to work your issues out.

Hey, I hope you can keep in mind that not all women are the same--I bet there are those who appreciate you because you sound like you really do respect women--you need to sort out what is appropriate with each woman given the circumstances. Good luck.