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Originally Posted by coconut64
I wasn't allowed to cry when I was little. My father found it offensive or a sign or weakness for some reason. I still don't know why. Anyway, we would get punished or hit if we cried..... I think it's a normal response for those of us who were abused/have trust issues/can't tolerate feelings. Keep talking and it will come with time.  |
(((((coconut64)))))
Me too....
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Originally Posted by earthmama
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(((((earthmama)))))
Me too....
Hanginon-
You are so brave to share what you have shared with your new T. Things will come and flow how they need to flow. I never used to cry in front of anyone, ever. I didn't cry for at least the first 6 months in T. Then I would tear up...After awhile I had a couple short cries...Recently, I have had some full on, several tissue, sobs. The best part though: I don't hate/berate
myself after. That has been the biggest change for me. I have been in T a year now and it has taken that long to get to this.
to you. You are right where you need to be.
~Searching