Thanks. I know it's a problem, I just found out about it too late.

Will look into local support groups for sure.

DePressMe - It has been my experience that older women (not saying anything here) tend to be more appreciative of a flattering comment. I try to be as genuine as possible at all times, and have had more than a few ask me if I had a twin. That makes me feel good.

It irks me quite a bit that I had no chance to try and resolve this. There was no arbitration or attempt to clarify or resolve at all. My intentions meant nothing, and I think that's what hurts. I will definitely install some new filters.

Thanks again for your comments and tips.