So, what's stopping you, Jennie? You are stronger than you know. Far stronger than you ever suspected, I bet!

And, it's fun. You just have to make sure that it SEEMS like you are sincerely going to answer the question, and then offer up a nice word salad. After a while, stop (mid-sentence if you want), as if to say "there's your answer" and look at them nicely. And, don't say anything more.

It is very empowering when *you* get into the driver's seat.

Good luck!

Shar