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Old Jan 09, 2009, 05:45 PM
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I would talk to your T about it - I know it will be hard - explain about the ring thing - maybe she was looking disaroving of there men taking advantage of you

therapy is hard - we look (when we look) at the T and make decisions about what they are thinking by their body language and physical expression - like if they have their arms crossed they are not interested - maybe they are cold? if they have their leg crossed away from you is supposed to be because they are not liking you or what you are saying - or maybe they had their leg crossed the other way before and they are just changing their pposition

We can read too much into these things especially when we are telling something that makes us feel vulnerable to our T's judgement

talk to your T -
Thanks for this!
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