Genn, this is a little off topic, but can I ask what those words after your name "at your service" mean for you? I ask because they are really triggering for me, and I find it difficult to read your posts because of them, but if I know what the intention of them is, I might be able to help myself through that. I am NOT asking you to remove them - I am wholly responsible for my own reactions. If am hoping that if I know what YOU mean by them I will be able to work my own way through my trigger.

Thanks.