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Old Jan 09, 2009, 11:28 PM
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Originally Posted by boobop54 View Post
i really don't get the vibe that there's mutual attraction, i feel like if i tell her then it'd ruin the closeness we have, you know?

i don't even know if i'm gay, like i'm attracted to men it's just with her it's different for some reason..
Then don't tell her. Go with your instincts. Only you know what is right for you.

Also, you're not gay if you are attracted to one particular female, that is, your best friend. If you found other females attractive in addition to your best friend, then I'd say there is a big probability. But an isolated incident shouldn't warrant a concern.