Hey, Just wanted to add my 2 cents, I have been with married older men and young men. I don't care what T thinks because I had FUN! I am 38yrs married to a 61 yr old man. I look at life as yah this is what I did and I learned alot while waiting for Mr. right I had fun with Mr. right now!LOL I think we tend to look to hard at ourselves. I think having a sense of humor is a good thing. Life isn't all about being serious all the time. it's not like you killed someone or robbed a bank! You didn't put a gun to those men's head either.