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T's hear about people having affairs all the time where one (or both) of them are married to someone else. It's a very common thing in our society. I can't imagine a T taking a negative view of you for that. If she does, that's a problem she has, not you. I was the "other man" for a very, very brief affair with an older married woman--I was single and very young. When I told my T's (a few over time) none of them had a negative reaction. If you feel any guilt, look at it as I looked at my experience: You didn't cheat on anyone. The men who were married are the ones who made a vow to another person; they're the ones who betrayed someone else, i.e. their wives, not you. Find out what your T thinks; don’t guess based on a look on a face.
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