Are there 2 people talking here? Even if there aren't, you should never do something that makes you uncomfortable in any way (i.e. it's wrong, you don't want to do it, etc.). This is all up to you-whether to stick with a long distance relationship(which are very hard to do)or to have a fling/serious thing with someone that is supposed to be caring for you. That doesn't jive with me. If the Mexican guy is your caretaker/helper because you're disabled he is assaulting you with his unwanted sexual advances. He shouldn't be doing those things-he's your caretaker-meaning hands off unless required for care. Sounds like someone is messing with not just your mind. Keep it non-sexual&report this guy for his unwanted advances. He's behaving very unprofessionally. Take care of you&make sure that nothing is happening that could hurt you physically or mentally.