As long as my reply was I also want to add that this has worked in reverse too, where the other person doesn't interpret my words correctly either. As I think I said in my thread in the relationships forum, I've never been given the opportunity to try to convey the true intent of my actions or words, therefore this is another example of a person rejecting and abandoning me. When they don't give me that opportunity, it leaves me extremely frustrated, hurt and unable to find closure to the relationship. My words are most often misunderstood. I seem to also have a bad habit of choosing the wrong words to convey what I want or to not be specific enough to lead the reader to jump to a conclusion on their own, which up to this point has always been wrong.

So, in this case, I think the person is looking at me and not taking into consideration the BP.

Such is my life!!! My BP life. Do I use it to manipulate things? Not consciously, although I have often been accused of doing so.

Perception: Do we see ourselves as others see us? Not in my case. As little as I think of myself, I come across as a much worse person than I really am. Obviously that means I do not know how to express myself well. Is this the BP? I don't know.