correctamundo! members rose up expressing the need for this forum to be a refuge from a lot of what people experienced elsewhere or IRL.
I guess the ol' checking-to-see-if-you're-peering-through-a-microscope hair on my neck was raised (i.e. feeling like a lab rat......my issue I fully admit)....I'm human and prickly too.

happens from time to time.
Glad you're finding some informative and kind responses as there are some great folks here.
Some ppl wade others jump in. Splash!

(I'm a wader myself

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