Ag, thank you for responding and I'm sorry that you feel you must build bigger and stronger walls. I'm coming to find out that only in stepping out from barriers, that I can stretch myself to grow, heal and transform myself into the woman I truly want to be, internally as well as externally. By stretching myself I'm referring to connecting to ppl when I normally wouldn't. Allowing ppl to know the inner me and in doing that to be coming from a space of self-assurance, that I'll be okay regardless of how I'm taken. The bottom line is loving myself and to be secure in that love. It's really a beautiful thing.
I can do this because the worst has already happened. I survived and I'm better for it...stronger, healthier, more compassionate toward others, forgiving and loving. I think these things show in my posts that I'm speaking truth and in that truth is some very good advice. I hope you, or someone is benefiting from it. TgrsPurr. xo