Nightdream,

Good going--- not listening to those familiar messages that tell you "don't reach out-- be silent" !! I soooo understand where you're coming from!! Having avoidant personality myself, I'm very familiar with those voices. And if not many people respond to my post I figure I'm too much of a bother, or just don't rate with others. All these messages going through my head-- it's so hard not to listen to them!!!

I have to push myself with every post I make-- it can be so draining- going against this --- force--- or whatever it is.

Real glad you posted and hope you keep doing so!!! Your posts are always so kind and compassionate. If you need to talk and posting just isn't happening-- you can PM me anytime. I'm thinking though ,that posting here is a great therapy for the likes of us!! However, I never get PMs-- so it would be cool with me if you did write.

Hooray to you-- for this post!!!

Mandy