Ok, back to the first post on this thread--I submitted my papers to the mortgage company. I've been talking on the phone to this wonderful girl who is just so upbeat and helpful (thank God because I hate talking on the phone). She just called today and apparently I forgot to include how much I spend in automobile gas per month, so she needed to get that. I gave it to her and she said, "Ok, we'll get this over to processing and get your answer later in the week." A simple enough statement. A statement that is causing it to be hard for me to breathe and to think. And to breathe. Normal thoughts---"Why can't they just say yes or no? Something has to be wrong if it's going to take till later in the week. I'm not going to get it. I just sent in over 1700 dollars, had my hopes up and I'm not going to get it. Nothing goes right," as I break down in tears. New thoughts (trying at least)--"Of course they have to process it, it's going to take till mid-week because I'm not the only client they have. Exactly what good will it do you to sit here and hyperventillate and stress and scratch your arms? NOT ONE BIT so STOP!".
Right?