My aunt is 56 years old and has bipolor. Mental illness is common in her siblings my mom has scitzophrenia t my uncle major depression my other uncle thought he was God.
Any way My aunt has these days. I know with bipolor you have ups and downs and stuff. However this is what i am wondering.
My aunt can be so mean to me. A couple of examples are when she stopped taking her meds she began to stab her teddy bears with a knife and I told her son she was very ill and she could put on a front for him when he called that seemed ok. To get me back she emailed every person in my family and told them I broke in her house ate all her cookies threw her phone in the ditch opened her courtains moved her dog food (she has no dog) and every one stopped talking to me for a year. The she apologized and told every one she was ill when she said that. More recently she has gone behind my back after i spent hours helping her do stuff and told every one that I made fun of her illness and how insinsative I was??? Not true again. I used to call her and check on her twice a week as her son lives far away and is unable to. She is so mean to me. She told me yesterday that my therapists actually hate me and they can not care about any one they work with as it is their job to pretend and that I need to stop building my foundation of healing based on what they say and do for me as they help me. SHe said they probably hate me and that I am to nice and to loving and that makes people sick.
She has called me a bit**. She also has called me suicidal blamed me and hung up on me and all the other family members rushed to her house after i called them and one of them said if she dies its your fault.
I have done nothing to her. When I was 9 i was placed with her after my mom went to prison. One day Ii said I want to go live with this person so she packed my stuff and dropped me off at her house.?????
I do not call her very often anymore. i dont check on her I told someone else in my family that i can not be that person.
Sometimes she is sooooo nice she tells me she loves me and I am the sweetest person she knows and she is sorry.
Is this bipolor???? Or is it just meanness? If its bipolor I can probably just let it go easier but if not I cant do it anymore. I was so triggered last night I cried for about 4 hours about what she said about my Therapists because it scared me????