Over the past few months, I have gone through phases of wanting to have a sexual relationship with my boyfriend to not. It confuses me. I feel that I am attracted to him, yet sex is not the most important thing in my life in which I can live without. Yet if I don't jump at the moment my boyfriend wants it, its like I am a bad person. Can someone explain this to me.

A recent example being over this past weekend, I was not feeling well. Yet in the morning my boyfriend wanted to make out and because I didn't jump all over him, he got mad and didn't talk to me all day. I don't understand it. Am I unbalanced or subconciously no longer attracted to him? If anyone out there has thoughts or suggestions, I am open to them.

I know that when I have a lot of stressful things going on in my life, sex is the last thing I am thinking about. Can this be a major problem.