(((madisgram)))

i'm glad the situation got resolved. is it an outcome you are happy with?

thank you for explaining about the trust. i had no idea that this is what you were referring to in your initial post. i would totally be taken aback if someone who was in charge of a trust specifically set up to care for someone else then decided to draw the purse strings tight and not let me get the money i needed to help care for that person. how difficult for you.

i hope things go well with Dave moving in with you. you are so lovely to take that on, especially when you have yourself to look after too. i barely cope some days myself, i cannot fathom looking after someone who would need the sort of care you'll need to provide for Dave.