Have you tried online personals? It is much better than going to bars. When my ex of 5 years and I broke up, I thought that I was not going to find anyone else. I had poor self-esteem and only new what I had with him. In order to get myself from going back to the bad, I went online and reviewed the personals. That is where I met my current boyfriend of 3 years. Although there are some problems (as you can see from my posted questions), he is a great person.

If I wouldn't have taken the initiative to respond to personals, I would probably be alone or in a bad relationship. This would be due to a low self-esteem and not thinking I am good enough for any guy.