Hello Soulfulgrrl,

I'm sorry you're feeling sad, confused and scared. It's good you are able to talk about it. You know there's lots of support for you here. You don't have to feel all isolated.

Have you tried talking to gf? I bet she does love you bunches but you may be right that she can't handle it all. Do you think you could if you were in her shoes? Relationships are never easy, they take "working at it" to a whole new level!

Maybe she could use a little tlc from you. Maybe she's a little worn out and could use some of that love you'd like to have. Couldn't hurt, right?

Remember you are NOT alone and if you're isolated - you can fix that. Let us hear from you more.

notz