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Originally Posted by skymonk
I think you're a saint to take on your ex's care under such difficult circumstances. Sabby had many good questions&suggestions. Has your ex ever applied for disability? That could help with expenses.
Yes, definitely be thankful that your ex is a non-violent schizophrenic. He's fortunate to have family that cares enough to take on what he can't-his health care. I also think that your son is expecting an awful lot from you-sure he's providing financial support, but he's not going to be dealing with the day to day stuff. I'd look into some support groups for yourself as a caretaker once you get moved. Best of wishes-hugs   |
gosh skymonk, can't thank you enough for your kind post. yes, david has disability thru the ssa. that's what i'll be using to pay for whatever he needs-medical, meds, etc. i'm thankful that i am in a position at this time in my life to give him a loving home. i know it will be a strain sometimes, but i have a lot of faith and will be relying on that in stressful times. (it may not work out and if not then we will be with no option but to return him to assisted living. we hope that doesn't have to take place) i'm thinking positive so i can influence the outcome. 
it's such a good feeling to know that you all care. i can't even express that appreciation into words, except to thank you from the bottom of my heart.
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