(((Bellatrix))) it's not like an addiction, it is an addiction. I'm sorry that this relationship hasn't worked out, but the man has made himself clear. You have to take his word that he's finished. A clean break is the only answer. I would also agree that seeking therapy is a really good idea.

Self discipline is the way to stop. Just don't contact him. What-ifs and maybe's will make you crazy. I wish you the best of luck.