Clearly, it's all about perception. I certainly am not being condescending when I'm using that term. But because we don't have the advantage of voice inflection, eye contact and body language, it's a way of communicating the "tone" of my message. Some of the stuff we talk about here is difficult subject matter that the spirit in which it is given is very much a factor.

That being said, I don't think that what has happened with this thread is what Wants2 had in mind. I, for one, apologize for this thread being hijacked and taken down the road it has. Perhaps I'm wrong. TgrsPurr. xo.